Transformations Clinical Psychology

Grief

Grief is a natural emotional response to loss, such as the death of a loved one, serious illness, separation, or divorce. It often brings feelings of shock, sadness, numbness, denial, or anger. Everyone experiences grief differently, and there is no fixed pattern or timeline. It’s a deeply personal process that varies from person to person, requiring patience, understanding, and support to heal and gradually adjust to life after loss.

What are the common symptoms?​

Grief is a natural response to loss, and it can affect people emotionally, physically, and mentally. While everyone experiences grief differently, there are common signs that often appear during this process. Recognising these signs can help you understand what you’re going through and remind you that these feelings are normal.

 

Grief doesn’t follow a strict timeline, and its intensity may fluctuate over time. It can manifest in ways that impact your mood, behaviour, and even physical health. Being aware of these indicators can help you seek support when needed and practise self-care during difficult moments.

 

Remember, grieving is not a weakness—it’s part of healing. Below are eight common signs you might experience when grieving.

Why do I feel like this?

Grieving is a deeply personal process that affects both mind and body. When we lose someone or something significant, our emotions can feel overwhelming and unpredictable. This happens because grief impacts our brain chemistry, stress hormones, and coping mechanisms. It’s not just sadness; it can involve confusion, anger, guilt, and even physical symptoms. These reactions are normal and part of how humans process loss. Understanding why you feel this way can help you navigate grief with compassion for yourself. Below are eight key reasons behind these feelings, each offering insight into the emotional and physiological changes during grieving.

Shock and Emotional Turbulence

Grief often begins with shock, leaving you numb or disbelieving. This is your brain’s way of protecting you from emotional overload. As reality sinks in, emotions fluctuate—sadness, anger, and confusion appear in waves. These shifts reflect your mind’s attempt to process and adapt to a changed reality.

Physical and Cognitive Impact

Grief isn’t only emotional; it affects your body and mind. Stress hormones surge, causing fatigue, headaches, or chest tightness. Cognitive functions like memory and concentration decline because your brain prioritises emotional healing over logic. This combination makes everyday tasks feel harder and amplifies the sense of disorientation.

Identity and Role Disruption

Loss can shake your sense of self. Roles, routines, and relationships tied to the person or situation change, leaving you feeling incomplete or uncertain. This identity disruption often triggers feelings of emptiness and vulnerability, as you struggle to redefine who you are without what you’ve lost.

Search for Meaning and Control

Grief sparks questions like “Why did this happen?” or “Could I have done more?” These thoughts stem from a desire for control in an uncontrollable situation. Seeking meaning helps integrate the loss into your life story, fostering acceptance and eventual growth, even though answers may remain elusive.

How does therapy help?

Grief is a natural response to loss, but it can feel overwhelming and isolating. Therapy provides a safe space to process emotions, understand the grieving journey, and develop coping strategies. Through professional guidance, individuals learn to express feelings without judgement, explore the meaning of their loss, and gradually rebuild a sense of normality. Therapy doesn’t erase grief but helps manage its intensity, fostering resilience and emotional healing. Whether through individual sessions, group support, or specialised approaches, therapy empowers people to navigate grief in a healthy, constructive way, ensuring they feel supported during one of life’s most challenging experiences.

Emotional Expression

Therapy encourages open expression of sadness, anger, and confusion, reducing emotional suppression. This validation helps individuals feel understood and supported, preventing long-term psychological distress and promoting emotional release.

Understanding Grief Stages

Therapists explain grief’s stages—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance—helping individuals recognise their feelings as normal. This understanding reduces fear and confusion, fostering acceptance and emotional clarity.

Developing Coping Strategies

Therapy equips individuals with practical coping tools like mindfulness, journaling, and relaxation techniques. These strategies reduce anxiety, improve emotional regulation, and provide structure during unpredictable grieving periods.

Preventing Complicated Grief

Professional support identifies signs of prolonged or complicated grief early. Intervention prevents mental health issues such as depression or anxiety, ensuring individuals receive timely care and recovery support.

Rebuilding Daily Functioning

Therapists assist in restoring routines, work focus, and social engagement. Structured guidance helps individuals regain stability, confidence, and purpose, reducing isolation and promoting gradual reintegration into life.

Creating Meaning and Growth

Therapy encourages reflection on the loss, fostering personal growth and resilience. Individuals often find new meaning, strengthen relationships, and develop a deeper appreciation for life’s values.

What are the therapy options that Transformations Clinical Psychology can offer me?

It is notable that many mental health conditions share similar symptoms which is why it is highly recommended that a qualified psychologist provides an accurate assessment, diagnosis and tailored treatment plan based on evidence-based methods to ensure effective recovery for your well-being.

Please contact us or follow this link if you would like to set up an assessment with a psychologist at Transformations Clinical Psychologist.

Meet Our Team​​

Meet our friendly and experienced team, here to help you with confidence and care.

Dr. Natalie Robinson
Principal Clinical Psychologist
Joanne Sheehan
Consultant Clinical Psychologist
Catherine Walker
Consultant Registered Psychologist
Dr. Mahsa Kia

Farsi

English

Consultant Clinical Psychologist
Jessica Lam

Cantonese

English

Consultant Clinical Psychologist
Ash Morad
Consultant Clinical Psychology Registrar & Registered Psychologist
Jenny Lee
Consultant Clinical Psychologist
Patricia Kiely
Consultant Clinical Psychologist
Amy Wang

Mandarin

English

Consultant Clinical Psychology Registrar & Registered Psychologist
Linda Tateossian
Administration Manager
Claudia Bonaccorso
Administration Assistant

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FAQ

Your first appointment is 50–60 minutes. We’ll get to know you—what’s been hard, what you’d like to change, and what’s helped before. You’re welcome to bring notes or just come as you are; we’ll go at your pace. Please complete the online intake and consent forms beforehand. Sessions are available in person (Sydney) or via secure telehealth across Australia. We’ll finish with a clear plan and time for your questions. If you’re in immediate danger, call 000.

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